Mar 10, 2007
Coming out in private - a contradiction? No. You might "dress for success", but you probably do the actual dressing of yourself in private. One of a few supposed contraditions which aren't so long as you look beyond the surface.
Some people think that the only way to deal with the world is to try to convert the whole rest of the world to their way, which is why you occasionally see someone trying to "save" you on the streetcorner or in front of a supermarket. And then there are those who try to deal only with their own kind of people so that they can avoid the real world as much as possible. And then, there are the people who try to keep anything spiritual in their lives a big secret - announce at work that you saw them in church, and see how they react. There might be a better way. I prefer to be who I am and deal with the rest of the world.
There are tools available to help accomplish that. And most of them are basics that some other folks just don't grasp. Here they are.